For Women: Advice on Understanding Men

If you're single, you may be wondering why men either are too afraid to 'approach' you, why you can't ever find a great guy, or why the ones that do approach do everything wrong.

To help you understand men more, you have to understand what they're going through.

With more singles than ever, there are a lot of great guys out there.  Many are interested in dating or some form of a relationship.

So why is it that you see men that either just don't approach or are too nervous to approach?  What's going on with that?

Maybe you're just thinking, 'Why don't they just approach me?..isn't that what they're supposed to do?'

Well, you have to understand what they're going through.  They've been rejected many times before and it hurt their ego.  They don't like to approach a woman if she's not giving ANY nonverbal signs of interest like they thought she was supposed to.

That's a start.  Are you one of these women?  You go to Starbucks or a bookstore and you notoriously keep to yourself?  Maybe you 'hope' that some guy would approach but you're not even sure if you should send any signal or eye contact to anyone you're interested in?

You see great potential guys around you but you don't do anything and can't figure out why you can't meet anyone?

Millions of women are notoriously dismissive or 'aloof' today. 

They forgot how to flirt and why?  They became more independent and developed themselves which can be great but it suffers when it comes to starting new relationships.

Men just don't know how to act around you when you're keeping everything to yourself.

The natural way of things is that a woman will intuitively flirt with a man she might be interested in.  It's not a logical process.

It just happens.  It can be just as simple as an assured yet subtle eye contact that invites him to approach.

The reason the majority of GOOD men don't approach is that they're not receiving any nonverbal/natural 'go ahead' from the quality women they'd be interested in.

This puts men into a bind.  Either they can approach and 'take all the risk' themselves because they don't if she's interested or they can just avoid risking damage to their ego.

Often, the greater the guy is, the less likely he may be able to just 'cold approach' women.

After putting up with this for so many years and seeing the behavior of independent women, they're not sure how to behave around them so they'll often just keep to themselves while women keep to themselves.

Yet each of us is still connected to the fantasy and ideal of having a relationship.  Women have romance novels and fantasies and men have their outlets yet we have more singles than ever in history while all kinds of industries are benefiting off of this.

I have a lot of advice for women (on men) that I will probably continue to release.  Most of my material is geared towards men, but I'm going to start getting women involved.

For women, it's easier to tell if a guy is interested in you.  If he's looking at you and giving you eye contact that means something.

With all of your independence, you still don't have to 'approach' men but if you want to have more dating success, get more in touch with your natural, intuitive nature and flirt a little or a lot.

You have a lot of power to draw in all KINDS of relationships if you open yourself up to it.  I've seen natural women not only attract men, but they can keep them if they want OR they can
get into other relationships if they so desire.

Don't be afraid to flirt.  If he doesn't do anything after it's obvious then you still haven't lost anything.  Many men just have to have some coaxing after all they've been through. 

Some great ones even wonder if any woman could be interested in him because it just rarely happens anymore but you'll be getting what you want.

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